Barsa Shrestha
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the topic of early marriage. It’s something we hear about in the news, in communities, sometimes even in our own neighborhoods. While some people saw it as a tradition or a way to protect girls, the truth is that it causes more harm than good.
Early marriage refers to getting married before the age of 18. Girls are usually the ones afflicted. They are expected to leave school, care for a family, and even become moms while still children.
When a girl marries young, her life changes completely. She frequently has to quit going to school, so she misses out on education and opportunities for a brighter future. Without education, it is more difficult to get work or become self-sufficient later in life. Early marriage also poses major health hazards for girls. Young females frequently become pregnant even though their bodies are not prepared for childbirth. This might result in health issues for both the mother and the infant.
There’s also an emotional component. Imagine being a child who is suddenly required to take on adult responsibilities. Many young girls are afraid, bewildered, and alone. Some even face assault or abuse, with little help.
Why Does It Still Happen?
There are many reasons. In some families, poverty plays a big role. Parents may think that marrying their daughter off early will ease financial pressure. In other cases, it’s because of cultural beliefs, where girls are expected to marry young to “protect” their reputation or follow family traditions.
Another big reason is the lack of education. When girls don’t go to school, they are more likely to get married early because they have fewer options.
How Can We Handle It?
Although it is difficult, it is possible to avoid getting married too young. Here are some helpful tips:
- Education: A girl’s chances of avoiding an early marriage increase with the length of her schooling.
- Raising awareness: Speaking candidly about the negative effects of child marriage can influence people’s opinions, particularly within families and communities.
- Support for girls: Girls are more likely to defend themselves when they are given choices, confidence, and life skills.
- Stronger laws: Although child marriage is prohibited in many nations, these laws must be adhered to and upheld.
Every girl should have the opportunity to mature, pursue her dreams, and make her own decisions. Early marriage eliminates that possibility. It’s time to speak up, educate others, and encourage young people, especially girls to live fully and freely.
We shouldn’t simply refer to it as a tradition. Let’s call it what it is: an issue that must be resolved.