BY: RAHIMAT
When we talk about menstruation in schools, we often talk about pads, pain, and hygiene. But one very important thing is still missing a safe space. Especially in rural areas, a safe space can make a big difference in a girl’s school life.A safe space is not just a room. It is a place where girls feel comfortable, respected, and not judged. It is a place where a girl can get a pad if she needs one, change comfortably, rest when she has pain, and talk to someone without fear or shame. A safe space should have basic facilities like a clean toilet, a changing room, access to pads, and support from a nurse or teacher.
During one of my Sarathi sessions in Janakpur, I experienced something that stayed with me. While we were talking about menstruation, the teacher asked all the boys to go outside the classroom. The session continued only with girls inside. At that moment, I felt uncomfortable. If teachers themselves believe that boys should not hear or learn about periods, then how can schools become safe spaces?
Menstruation is not only a girls’ issue. Boys also need to learn about it so they can be respectful, supportive, and responsible. Sending boys out of the classroom only increases fear, teasing, and misunderstanding. A real safe space is where both girls and boys learn together, without jokes, shame, or judgment.
So, the question is who is responsible for creating a safe space?
Teachers, school management, parents, and all of us play a role. If teachers are not comfortable, students will never feel safe. If schools don’t provide basic facilities, girls will continue to miss classes or drop out.